What Are Your
Dating Blindspots?
What Are Your Dating Blindspots?
There's three subconscious patterns silently shaping your love life. Take this quiz to uncover yours & learn how to start attracting high-quality, conscious, masculine men.
There's three subconscious
patterns shaping your love life,
take this quiz to identify how
to shift yours & start attracting
high-quality, conscious,
and masculine man.
Are you stuck in cycles of
disappointment, over giving,
or attracting emotionally
unavailable men?
Do you find yourself in cycles of disappointment, over
giving, or attracting emotionally unavailable men?
Take This Quick,
2-Min Quiz To Reveal
Take This Quick,
2-Min Quiz To Reveal
The subconscious relationship pattern keeping you stuck
How your past experiences are shaping your current dating life
The key mindset shifts that will help you attract a high-quality man
A clear next step to create the relationship you truly desire & deserve
The subconscious relationship pattern keeping you stuck
How your past experiences are shaping your current dating life
The key mindset shifts that will help you attract a high-quality men
A clear next step to create the relationship you truly desire & deserve
Break The Cycle,
Step Into Your Power
Understanding your relationship pattern is the first step toward dating with confidence, setting healthy boundaries, and attracting a man who values and adores you.
Start The Quiz Below
Get Instant Access To Free Blueprint
Tailored To Your Subconscious Pattern
Break The Cycle,
Step Into Your Power
Understanding your relationship pattern is the first step toward dating with confidence, setting healthy boundaries, and attracting a man who values and adores you.
Start The
Quiz Below
Get Instant Access To Free Blueprint
Tailored To Your Subconscious Pattern
What Happens After the Quiz?
Once you complete the quiz you'll receive:
A personalized breakdown
guide of your specific
relationship pattern
A short video training on
how to shift your dynamic
and date differently
An opportunity to explore the
Sovereign Woman program
for high-value women
What Happens
After the Quiz?
Once you complete the
quiz you'll receive:
A personalized breakdown
guide of your specific
relationship pattern
A short video training on
how to shift your dynamic
and date differently
An opportunity to explore the
Sovereign Woman program
for high-value women
What Are The 4 Different
Subconscious Dating Patterns?
What Are The 4 Unique Dating Patterns?
"The Over Giver"
You give too much in relationships, often attracting men who take but don’t give back.
"The Anxious Lover"
You crave deep intimacy but often feel
anxious in relationships.
"The Over Giver"
You give too much in
relationships, often
attracting men who take
but don’t give back.
"The Anxious Lover"
You crave deep intimacy but often feel anxious in relationships.
"The Avoidant Protector"
You keep your guard up and struggle to let men in emotionally.
"The Balanced Feminine"
You feel emotionally secure in dating and are ready for a high-quality, conscious relationship.
Take This Quiz To uncover Your unique relationship pattern & get the Blueprint To break it & get the love you deserve
Take The Quiz To Get Your Blueprint To Understand Why You Have This Pattern &
How To Navigate It
Why this works for 98% Of Women
In 2023, something clicked.
I started noticing a quiet ache beneath the surface in so many of the women I was coaching…
These were incredible women — smart, successful, self-aware, and doing deep work on themselves. Women who were leaders, nurturers, visionaries. And yet… when it came to love, they kept finding themselves in the same painful patterns.
Men who were emotionally unavailable.
Men who sent mixed signals.
Men who said all the right things but couldn’t follow through.
Men who made them question their worth — or vanished just when things felt promising.
At first, I brushed it off. Maybe it was bad luck. Maybe the timing was off. Maybe the right man just hadn’t arrived yet.
But after thousands of conversations — on coaching calls, in workshops, and during my years as a lead trainer for Tony Robbins — I began to see the truth.
This wasn’t random. It wasn’t just “bad dating.” It was a pattern.
A deep, invisible blueprint playing out beneath the surface — shaped by early experiences, nervous system wiring, and unhealed emotional wounds.
So I got curious.
What if we could trace these patterns back to their roots?
What if we could understand why women end up in these loops — and more importantly, how to break them?
What if I could build a tool that gently revealed the subconscious beliefs, behaviors, and emotional habits shaping someone’s love life… and offered a clear path to shift it?
That’s when the Dating Pattern Blueprint Quiz was born.
It’s not just a quiz. It’s a mirror — rooted in psychology, emotional intelligence, and years of experience — designed to help you understand
why you attract who you do… and how to begin calling in a different kind of love.
Since launching it, the breakthroughs have been INCREDIBLE!
Women write to me saying:
“This finally made the invisible visible…”
“I feel like I understand myself and my choices for the first time.”
“I’ve never felt so seen, and I finally know what to do differently.”
And that’s what I want for you, too.
If you’re tired of repeating the same dating cycles… tired of feeling like you’re doing everything right but still not attracting the kind of love you crave… this quiz is the start of something different.
If your heart longs for a relationship that feels safe, emotionally available, and deeply aligned…
Start here.
This quiz is the most distilled version of what I’ve spent the last two decades teaching, studying, and living. It’s clear, compassionate, and designed to meet you right where you are.
Take the quiz. See your unique blueprint.
And finally start attracting the kind of love your heart has been waiting for.
And finally understand what’s been getting in the way of the love you truly deserve.
Why this works for 98% Of Women
In 2023, I started noticing a pattern with the women I was coaching…
They were smart, successful, emotionally intelligent — yet still attracting the wrong men.
Unavailable men. Inconsistent men. Men who made them question their worth, or worse, men who disappeared after showing so much “potential.”
At first, I thought it was just random bad luck or poor timing...
But after thousands of coaching calls, workshops, and one-on-one sessions (especially through my years as a lead trainer for Tony Robbins), I started realizing — this wasn’t a coincidence. It was a pattern!
A blueprint. A subconscious “loop” rooted deep in emotional wiring and unprocessed stories.
So I got curious…
What if I could map these patterns and reverse-engineer the way emotionally available, aligned love actually comes into someone’s life?
What if I could create a tool that helped women see their own dating blueprint — the invisible beliefs, behaviors, and emotional triggers that were silently running the show — and then give them the clarity and shift to finally change it?
That’s exactly what I did.
I built the Dating Pattern Blueprint Quiz — a psychology-backed, emotionally intelligent framework that helps women understand what’s actually attracting the relationships in their lives…
AND what needs to shift in order to attract the deep, connected, aligned love they truly want.
Since launching it, the breakthroughs have been INCREDIBLE!
Women are telling me things like:
“I finally saw the pattern I’ve been stuck in for years...”
“I stopped chasing and started receiving…”
“I’ve never felt so seen, and so clear on what to do next…”
And that’s what I want for you.
If you’re tired of repeating the same dating cycles… tired of feeling like you’re doing everything right but still not attracting the kind of love you crave…
This quiz is the start of something different.
I’ve spent the last 20 years doing this work — training, coaching, studying patterns, and helping people heal and rewire their emotional lives.
This quiz is the most distilled, accessible version of that work. And it’s yours, right now.
Take the quiz. See your blueprint.
And finally understand what’s been getting in the way of the love you truly deserve.
Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked
Questions
Is the training on navigating my pattern FREE?
Yes, once you fill out the quiz you'll be re-directed to a free training to your specific dating pattern that will teach you why you're in this pattern, and how to navigate it properly giving you an in-depth understanding of how you love to help you start attracting the man you deserve.
How long does the quiz take?
The quiz is multiple choice and on average takes only 2 minutes in total to complete it, afterwards you'll get instant access to the training for your specific pattern!
Is it possible my dating pattern doesn't exist based on this quiz?
We've had thousands of women across the nation take this quiz and so far we have yet to have a woman who didn't fall into one of these categories, although they may have had additional circumstances causing their pattern, we've only gained good responses to women who are now successfully attracting the right men!
How do I get access to the free training?
Once you've successfully completed the quiz, you'll be taken to a breakdown of your specific pattern with the option to click a button that takes you directly to your free training that breaks down exactly why you're experiencing this, what causes it, and how to recognize & start using it to your advantage and attract a high quality, and masculine man that you deserve based on how you love.
How do I start the quiz?
Click the pink button below to start the quiz!
HerLoveMap Dating Pattern Quiz ™.
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